Ask Dr. NerdLove: Lost That Loving Feeling
Near Dr. NerdLove, I’m hoping you can help set my mind at ease. About 2 1/2 years ago I married a nerd. Your typical shy, anti-social, Star Trek watching, Star Wars toy collecting, can’t watch a movie...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Did I Ruin Sex For My Ex?
Hi Doc, I got out of a long-term relationship (2.5 years) recently. It was a mutual, polite and extremely amicable break-up, to the extent that a mutual friend who is consoling both of us has called it...
View ArticleEpisode #96 – This Is Why You Fail
How often has the frustration of being single gotten to you? How many times have you asked yourself: why aren’t you going to get any better? Why do other people find love and you don’t? Why aren’t you...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: When Do I Disclose My Mental Illness?
What’s crackin’ Dr Nerdalicious? Was wondering if I could ask you a question on a potentially sensitive issue; to cut a long story short, I’ve recently been diagnosed with Complex PTSD after...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Keep Going When It Feels Hopeless?
Greetings Doc. I flat out refuse to go out with anyone who is really attractive because in my own personal experience, they are shallow, manipulative, entitled, and morally bankrupt. That being said,...
View ArticleEpisode #95 – What Men Get Wrong About Women
If you’re looking for advice on dating women, then you’re going to find many, many self-proclaimed experts in the female mind. The problem is that most of them are almost entirely wrong. Worse, they...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Cure Commitment Phobia?
Hey Doc, Appreciate the site, and your responses to so many of us trying to figure this whole “desire for romance” thing out. It’s not easy, so thank you. My question to you regards the idea of...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Help, I’m Afraid To Date
Dear Doc, I’m going to start with a quick rundown of my dating history for context. I never bothered dating in high school, thinking that those sorts of relationships wouldn’t last and weren’t worth...
View ArticleEpisode #94 – How To Be A Better Man
Over the last month, the nation has had one of many conversations about sexual assault and the affect it has on surivors. And as more women speak up, sharing their stories, sharing their pain and...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Make Up For Lost Time?
Hello Dr. NL. Thank you for your work over the years. I have long struggled to connect with others in a meaningful way. I do have plenty of friends and people who like me, but I’ve always longed for...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Friend Zone My Wife?
Hey Doc: Long story short: we’ve been married 17 years, dated for about ten before that. Sex and kissing and everything else was, frankly, amazing in the first decade or so and, if I’m being honest, it...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Escape A Bad Date?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I have a question regarding the manners (and safety) of when to end a date when you met the person online. I’m a woman in my late 20s, and I’ve had enough experience with online...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should I Lower My Standards?
Hi Doc, I started dating in my early twenties and in that time I learned a lot about who I gel with and who to stay the hell away from. However one thing that I noticed was a common theme: I kept...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do Turn My Life Around?
Hello Doc My life is hell and always has been. Especially, for the last four years. I am twenty one years old chronologically, but biologically I am probably in my late thirties, early forties. This is...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Help, I Have Too Many Men In My Life
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m a college student who semi-recently ended the only relationship I have ever been in. After taking a few months to recover, I have gotten over my old relationship, which started...
View ArticlePlease Pardon The Interruption – Paging Dr. NerdLove resumes in October
Hey NerdLovers! I’m currently on vacation, which means that there won’t be a new episode of Paging Dr. NerdLove until I get back in two weeks. In the mean time, if you want to keep up with my...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Should I Respond To Being Ghosted?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, Been reading your stuff for awhile and it’s been really helpful. I’m a 28 year old male that’s been in a dating drought for about 3 years now, but this summer has been quite a bit...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being The Toxic Friend?
Hi Doc, I recently realized (well, “accepted” would be more accurate) that I qualify as someone who is a toxic friend. A couple of months ago, my friends pointed out I would not behave in the same way...
View ArticleEpisode #93: The Flirting Mistakes That Kill Attraction
There’s a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting. Advice that not only doesn’t work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occasionally piss them off. Meeting...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Others To Respect My Boundaries?
Hey Doc, I’ll admit, this isn’t a question related to romantic relationships, but rather to familial relationships, although I do believe that the advice I’ll receive could be generalized to...
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