Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can One Date Ruin EVERYTHING?
Hello Doc! I’ve been a reader of your blog for a few years now It’s been an incredible asset to help me rebuild my “new self” as I call it. I had a nervous breakdown some time ago. I was depressed, not...
View ArticleEpisode #90 – How To Be More Attractive… Instantly
When we talk about being attractive, we tend to think of it in terms of being physically good looking. But there’s a difference between being good looking and being attractive. People can be...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Ask For an Open Relationship?
Hi Doctor! I am in my late twenties, and am in a long-term relationship with my first serious boyfriend, “D”. I grew up in a very conservative religious environment, so I was delayed when it came to...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Did I Make A Mistake Getting Married?
Hey Doc, I’m really curious what advice you may have for me here, just because I think this may simply be an issue where I’ve made my bed and now I have to lie in it. Nevertheless, I think you’ll ‘get’...
View ArticleEpisode #91 – How To Plan the Perfect First Date
How many times have you had a first date that you thought was amazing… but never lead to a second date? First dates can be tricky and frustrating. A lot of guys are good at getting a first date, but...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Avoid Abusive Partners?
Dear Doctor, Do you have any tips or advice for screening out toxic/abusive partners from the dating pool? I’m talking about those who are well-rehearsed in appearing sincere, understanding and...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Cope With Guilt?
(Doctor’s Note: This letter deals with discussion of suicide.) Dear Dr NerdLove, I’m a 30 year old guy who is in his first real relationship. I had essentially given up the idea of ever having a...
View ArticleEpisode #92 – 5 Rules To Instantly Upgrade Your Style
Learning how to dress well is one of the quickest and easiest ways to be more attractive. When you start dressing up sharp, you look amazing… and most people don’t. But it takes very little to stand...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Over My Girlfriend’s Past?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We’ve been together for about three months and I’ve been constantly concerned about my girlfriend’s past. I’ve known...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Others To Respect My Boundaries?
Hey Doc, I’ll admit, this isn’t a question related to romantic relationships, but rather to familial relationships, although I do believe that the advice I’ll receive could be generalized to...
View ArticleEpisode #93: The Flirting Mistakes That Kill Attraction
There’s a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting. Advice that not only doesn’t work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occasionally piss them off. Meeting...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being The Toxic Friend?
Hi Doc, I recently realized (well, “accepted” would be more accurate) that I qualify as someone who is a toxic friend. A couple of months ago, my friends pointed out I would not behave in the same way...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Should I Respond To Being Ghosted?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, Been reading your stuff for awhile and it’s been really helpful. I’m a 28 year old male that’s been in a dating drought for about 3 years now, but this summer has been quite a bit...
View ArticlePlease Pardon The Interruption – Paging Dr. NerdLove resumes in October
Hey NerdLovers! I’m currently on vacation, which means that there won’t be a new episode of Paging Dr. NerdLove until I get back in two weeks. In the mean time, if you want to keep up with my...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Help, I Have Too Many Men In My Life
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m a college student who semi-recently ended the only relationship I have ever been in. After taking a few months to recover, I have gotten over my old relationship, which started...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do Turn My Life Around?
Hello Doc My life is hell and always has been. Especially, for the last four years. I am twenty one years old chronologically, but biologically I am probably in my late thirties, early forties. This is...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should I Lower My Standards?
Hi Doc, I started dating in my early twenties and in that time I learned a lot about who I gel with and who to stay the hell away from. However one thing that I noticed was a common theme: I kept...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Escape A Bad Date?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I have a question regarding the manners (and safety) of when to end a date when you met the person online. I’m a woman in my late 20s, and I’ve had enough experience with online...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Friend Zone My Wife?
Hey Doc: Long story short: we’ve been married 17 years, dated for about ten before that. Sex and kissing and everything else was, frankly, amazing in the first decade or so and, if I’m being honest, it...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Make Up For Lost Time?
Hello Dr. NL. Thank you for your work over the years. I have long struggled to connect with others in a meaningful way. I do have plenty of friends and people who like me, but I’ve always longed for...
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