Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #47 – How To Approach Amazing Women
Listen: here Direct Download: here How many times have you seen somebody – maybe at a bar, maybe in class, maybe at a party – who was AMAZING. They were incredible, they were everything you...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Over A Crush?
Hey Doc, How do I get out of the friend zone, but, like, in the opposite direction that most people are interested in? How do I stop having a crush without going nuclear (especially in a situation...
View Article5 Rules for Better Hook Ups
It’s something of a cliche that getting what you want doesn’t always make you happier. That’s never more true than when it comes to sex. For many people, living the sort of swinging lifestyle modeled...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #48 – What Are The Fundamentals of Flirting?
Listen: here Direct Download: here (Doctor’s Note: Like the video? Be sure to head to YouTube to like it and share your thoughts in the comments!) One of the reasons why...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Hating Myself?
Hey Doc, long time reader, first time poster. I’m 20 years old and my MAJOR problem is that I am a badly socialized spiteful thrall of technology (or asshole) Needless to say I am disappointed by this...
View ArticleWhat Does It Take To Be A Better Man?
It has been a long, long couple of weeks. There’s been seemingly no end of revelations, discussions and open not-so-secrets about supposedly “good” men who’ve been turning out to be far less than...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #49 – When Is Flirting A Bad Idea?
Listen: Here Direct Download: Here There’s a time and place for everything, including getting to know amazing new women....
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Why Won’t She Choose Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, Long time reader of your column, first time submitter. I’ve always found the advice you give your readers to be well thought out and sometimes with the necessary amount of tough...
View ArticleHow To Not Be The Office Creep
Over the last week, more reports about Harvey Weinstein’s history of sexual assault, harassment and coercion have dominated headlines in the news and conversations on Twitter. One of those...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #50 – The Truth Behind “Secret” Seduction Techniques
Listen: Here Direct Download: Here Do you want to learn the secret to getting amazing, beautiful women to fall in love with you? You probably hear about these...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: He Left Her, Will He Leave Me Too?
Hello Doctor, I’ve been reading this blog for a long time and have had nothing but good results from it: I managed to get myself out of a rather nasty downward spiral of negative thoughts and poor self...
View ArticleA Man’s Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ
Emotional intelligence is one of those traits that tends to be woefully underdeveloped in men. Call it part of the toxic masculinity package; when things like “having feelings” are treated as a...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #51 – 5 Steps To Creating An Instant Connection
Do you have have that friend who seems to just connect with people. They can roll up on strangers and end up with new best friends and dates. And you… can’t. It doesn’t seem fair, does it? These...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: When Does Behavior Cross The Line?
Dr. NerdLove: Thank you for your column and work. I really appreciate the niche you’ve carved out and the help you provide your readers. I’m usually a friendly, encouraging, and empathetic guy, but...
View ArticleHow To Have That Awkward Conversation
There comes a point in every relationship where you have to have an awkward or intimidating conversation you’d rather avoid. There’s no getting around it. No relationship you’ll ever have, whether it’s...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #52 – How To Conquer Your Fear of Rejection
Let’s say that you’re out – maybe you’re at a party, maybe you’re at a bar, maybe you’re killing some time between classes and you see somebody who is just amazing. They may be a perfect stranger,...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Handle The Creeper At Work?
Hi Dr NerdLove, So, its a long story but this is what happened, and I’m not sure what to do. About a month ago, a very attractive girl moved in to my share house. I was away at the time, but when we...
View ArticleHow Do You Find Redemption?
If you’ve paid even vague attention to the news recently – or even just social media – you may have been struck by the seemingly unending tidal wave of men being called out for assault, harassment and...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode # 53 – How Do You Ask For Consent?
Lately you can’t really turn on the news or go through social media without hearing about people talking about sexual assault, sexual harassment, unwanted groping or sliding into someone’s DMs with...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Am I Attracted To The Wrong Women?
Hey Doc, My first girlfriend was white. Brown hair, super kind person, amazing person, we dated for 2 years and had to end it because I couldn’t handle her low self esteem anymore, it was becoming too...
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