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Post Mortem: Why Do Women Have All The Advantages In Dating?
As my long-term readers know, I get a lot of letters from readers for my weekly Q&A “Ask Dr. NerdLove” both here and over at Kotaku. But, occasionally, I’ll get a letter from a reader that requires...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #54 – The Guide To Approaching Amazing Women
Get your free worksheet on how to ask for consent: http://eepurl.com/c-AgBr Pop quiz, hot shot: you’ve just made eye contact with an incredible woman across the room. She seems to be giving you the...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is Age More Than Just A Number?
Doctor’s Note: one of the letters for this week’s column involves the description of a sexual assault. Hi Doc, I have a strange situation, but I’m sure you’ve heard it all. I live in a house with...
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A Man’s Guide To Being Happy About Being Single
It can be hard to be single at times – especially when the holidays roll around. When the universe seems determined to rub your face in not being in a relationship, it can be difficult not to be...
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Paging Dr. Nerdlove Episode #55 – How To Create A Powerful, Instant...
How many times have you had a conversation that went something like this: you think you’ve been doing well, but as soon as you’re done talking, that’s it and they’ve basically forgotten you exist....
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Help My Single Bro?
Hey Doc, I’ve written you a few times and you’ve been kind enough to give me insight, but this time I’m not asking for me, personally, but my brother, who seems to be going through a rough cycle in the...
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5 Rules for Being Friends With Benefits
An eternal truism of love, sex and dating is that no relationship style is one-size-fits all. Not everybody is cut out for a romance that will last the ages!!!! with all the cartoon hearts and animated...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #56 – How To Be The Most Interesting Man In The Room
This week, I want to give you one of the most valuable tips I can possibly give. This is that One Simple Trick, that single thing that you can do that will double your online dating success, make you...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Date When I’m HIV+?
Eh, What’s up doc? I’m a heterosexual male who is about to turn 26 in a few days. I’m an average guy on good days (I don’t pass the Grimes Test with flying colors) who has never been in a relationship....
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Why Women Say “Yes” To Sex
One of the things that a lot of people get wrong about sex and sexual attraction is that it’s not about arousal. After all, as anyone who’s gone through puberty can tell you, arousal can happen to...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #57 – How To Tell Amazing Stories
Being interesting isn’t just about knowing things or having done incredible things. You also want to be able to share those experiences with others. Most of us don’t think about the way we present...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Driving People Away?
Hi Doc, I’m finally asking you for some insight in a little problem of mine, after having delayed this quite a while, because, well, my issue isn’t directly related to dating. Because of this, I don’t...
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The Broken Masculinity of The Punisher
Warning: Spoilers for parts of Daredevil season 2 and The Punisher Like the incredible Jessica Jones, Marvel’s The Punisher examines and elevates a character and a genre defined by tropes and clichés....
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #58 – How To Avoid Getting Ghosted
This week we’re starting a new, semi-regular series, taking questions from readers, listeners and viewers. This week: He has no problem meeting women… but he’s getting ghosted on the regular. The...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Too “Nice” For Casual Sex?
Dear Dr NerdLove, I’m a mid-20s male and to be honest, I’m completely lost when it comes to dating these days and I always feel like I’m one step behind everyone else (it probably doesn’t help that I...
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The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment
As the revelations of sexual harassment, abusers and general shitbags rolls on, so to does the inevitable pushback to the #metoo movement. And while there have always been people who insist that we’re...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #59: How To Survive A Party
How do you make it through a party when you don’t know anyone? Since this is the last episode for 2017, I’ve decided that instead of answering one person’s questions, I’m answering several at once....
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Are The Rules Of Threesomes?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, Thanks for existing. My bf and I had a threesome with a woman and it was good for our first time. I wasn’t attracted to her, but I knew he was and I wanted to give us the experience...
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Post Mortem – Will We Ever Be More Than Friends?
On occasion, I’ll get a request for advice on a situation that’s more layered and complex than a typical Ask Dr. NerdLove question. These questions typically need a deeper dive into just what went...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Take My Ex Back?
Hey, Doc. About 4 years ago i met this amazing woman in the gym we were both attending in Paris. She was extremely kind, empathic, caring and everything one hopes to find in a S.O. We started chatting...
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