Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #66 – Overcoming Social Anxiety
As we all live more and more of our lives on the Internet, we spend more time communicating through text. Texting is awesome; you’ve got time to think about what to say, you can proof-read things a...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend’s Breath Is Killing Our Relationship
Dear Doctor NerdLove: I’m sure if I searched the archives of your column I would find this topic discussed somewhere, but I’m writing to you because I feel like my situation with my boyfriend is...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Help, I’m Not Ready To Have Sex
Hey Doc, This is going to seem like it’s coming out of left field, given how many questions you get are some form of “HOW DO I START HAVING SEX?”, but – honestly – I’m not ready. I want it eventually,...
View ArticleEpisode #67 – Understanding Toxic Masculinity
In the wake of the recent shootings in Parkland, Florida, actor and comedian Michael Ian Black commented that “Deeper than the gun problem is this: boys are broken.” And it’s in no small part because...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Have “The Talk”?
Dear Doc, I’m in a real bind. I decided sometime in college and post-grad that I’m not a “relationship guy”. It’s not something I was 100% closed off to, but I decided it was not something I would...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Stop Being So Sensitive?
Dear Dr NerdLove Since I was a kid I was always very sensitive, and would tear up or outright cry whenever someone said something even slightly mean about me. I was bullied a lot when I was younger....
View ArticleEpisode #68 – What Do Women Want in a Man?
Last week, a Twitter user posted a comment about actor Michael B. Jordan – claiming that he was a 5’9” grown man living with his parents who openly loved anime and that this ran contrary to what women...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: I Want To Get Back In The Friend Zone
Hey Doc, I’ve got a situation that would really benefit from your advice. You know how you say monogamy is agreeing to not bang other people, not an agreement to never want to bang other people? Well,...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Tell If My Girlfriend Likes Me?
Hey Doc, I’m almost a 40 years man and I’m in a relationship for about 20 years with a woman almost my age. We’ve got our moments of pain and the last year we decided to break it because there were too...
View ArticleNo new podcast this week
Hey all, Just FYI there’s no new episode of Paging Dr. NerdLove this week. Emerald City Comic Con was an awesome, if exhausting time and it’s taken it’s toll on me. So I’m now fighting off the Con Crud...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Let Go of My Past?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, I have a question for you that I haven’t been able to find an answer to anywhere else. So, I am a 26 year old guy who has been single for about 10 years now and I solely hold the...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Can I Be Happy AND Save My Relationship?
Hello, I don’t regularly tune in, or read any articles, but I just read 2 after searching for help and thought it might be good for me to submit my predicament. I love my boyfriend so very much, for so...
View ArticleEpisode #69 – Building Consent Culture with Kitty Stryker
This week we’re doing something different. With the continuing progress of #metoo, #timesup and the questions about consent, there’s no better time to talk about building towards a culture of...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Why Do I Date The Wrong Women?
Hey Doc, First off, I’m a big fan – I’ve been following your website and YouTube channel for over a year now, and I’ve also read your book New Game+. I work as a psychologist, and I would say that a...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Can I Date When I Still Live With My Parents?
Hi Doc, I’ve been a viewer/reader of your site for a while now, and I’ve even read your book, and I’ve got to say you have a lot of great advice. I’m not historically one for asking advice online, but...
View ArticleEpisode #70 – Bridging The Love Gap with Jenna Birch
Normally when I talk about dating issues, I’m talking about issues that primarily affect men, from a man’s perspective. However, it can also be incredibly useful to look at the dating issues that...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Should I Dump My Kinky Boyfriend?
Doc, please help. I’ve been dating this great guy for two months, and the whole time he’s been talking about toys and buttplay. As it turns out, he’s a sub and wants to be dominated. Sex, for me, has...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Being A Virgin Cost Me My Relationship
Hi Doc, I am a 35 years old man who recently broke up with his girlfriend for 3 years, because I couldn’t handle the fact that she has had several lovers before me and I was an inexperienced virgin. I...
View ArticleCan We Learn How To Date from Games?
Hey NerdLovers: I’m right in the middle of moving into the new office/studio, which means that there isn’t going to be a new podcast this week. But I don’t want to leave you all hanging, which is why...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do Fix Someone Who’s Afraid To Date?
Hey Doc, So basically I met this wonderful guy over the summer. I’m a graduating senior at college and he’s in his second year of a three year grad program at the same university. Background on me- I...
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