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POST MORTEM: Am I A Cheater or a Victim?
(Doctor’s Note: This letter involves discussion of sexual assault.) Every once in a while, I get a letter that requires more than the standard Ask Dr. NerdLove. Sometimes a reader has a situation that...
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Episode #71 – What’s Wrong With Men Today?
What do Men’s Rights Advocates, popular self-help gurus, the alt-right and the movie Fight Club all have in common? They’re all trying to answer the question of “What’s wrong with men?” It’s pretty...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Overcome Sexual Shame?
Hey Doc, first off I’m a big fan of your site and really appreciate all the healthy dating advice you give. I’m a 26 year old straight male and I’ve basically had intense shame about my sexuality for...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Make New Friends?
Hey Doc, I am a recent college graduate who is struggling to make new friends, and was hoping to hear your thoughts on this issue. I currently have a small but solid group of friends left over from...
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Episode #72 – What Does Positive Masculinity Look Like?
Toxic masculinity doesn’t mean that that being a man is toxic, bad or even undesirable. At the same time non-toxic or positive masculinity doesn’t mean apologizing for being a man or trying to be as...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can He Love Her If He Already Loves Me?
Doctor, I need your help. I am not attracted to anyone in my area, not a single one. It’s either the horrible voice or being underweight or overweight, or the terrible personality (I have this one) It...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Best Friend Is Sleeping With My Crush
Dr. NerdLove, Before I get to the core of the problem, I want to give you a little background of where I come from. As a teenager I grew up a fairly popular kid. I had people fawning over me all the...
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Episode #73 – How To Be A High-Value Man
One of the long-running questions that men have tried to solve has been why women choose to date and sleep with some men over others — and, more importantly, how we could become those men. This is...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is The Right Time To Approach Women?
Dear Dr NerdLove First of all here’s a little background. Due to some mental and physical health reasons I moved from my home to San Francisco where I am currently attending college. I have had little...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been a reader for a few months now and I have had a…bizarre break-up recently that has left me with worsened problems. My dating history already isn’t that great to begin with....
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Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone
The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend Zone as a sort of dating Stalag-17 has...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Too Intimidating To Date?
Dear Doctor! I recently stumbled across your blog and I agree with most of your views and admire the advice you give to people. I don’t know if you bother to help me with my, realistically speaking,...
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The Trouble With Incels
When Alek Minnasian drove his van into groups of pedestrians, the world went looking for answers. A post on his personal Facebook page – one where Minnassian referred to incels, the Incel Rebellion and...
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The Incel Phenomenon: Fixing The Wrong Sexual Crisis
I see we’re not done talking about incels. After Alek Minassian’s deadly attack on innocents in Toronto, scores of people decided to share their hot takes about how to “handle” the incel problem. Of...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Is Spying On Other Women
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I am 5 years into a relationship, and we’ve lived together for 3 of those years. During the past year, a new neighbor moved in next door. She is about a decade younger than us, and...
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Episode #75 – How Do You Fix The Problem With Incels?
Over the last couple of weeks, it seems as though the world has been talking about incels – people who refer to themselves as being involuntarily celibate. But while we are all bringing attention to...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Agree To An Open Relationship?
Dear Doc, I’m writing to you because I think I have a problem with my girlfriend and I’m not sure how to solve it. First of all, English is not my first language so I’m sorry for any mistake in my...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Avoid Sabotaging My Relationships?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been listening to your show for a while now and really like your approach to handling communication within a relationship. I have a question for you as both a perpetual worrier...
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Episode #76 – The Virginity Paradox
Recently, we’ve been talking about toxic masculinity and all of the ways that it damages men on the individual level and society on the whole. One of the enduring questions is: so what do we do about...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Need Sex?
Hi Doc. First, I started reading your stuff about a year ago, and it’s been a big help to me. I do have some issues that I’d like to ask about though, but I should probably start with some backstory....
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